Factors to Consider Before Buying Your First Bondage Restraints
Since the Fifty Shades of Grey era began, the use of bondage restraints has become more popular amongst couples worldwide. If you're considering adding soft bondage to your bedroom activities, there are a few factors you should consider before making a purchase.
Discussing bondage restraints with your partner
While some may accept the use of bondage restraints as a sensual surprise, others prefer a little warning. If you're in a healthy long-term relationship, raising the use of any device in the bedroom shouldn't be an issue. In addition to gaining consent, you should discuss limits and the use of a stop word. Such agreements safety net your new practice, and they ensure you both have fun.
Consider which materials you prefer
Even if you're new to the world of bondage, it shouldn't come as a surprise that heading for tougher materials on your first experience retracts from the pleasure. Fortunately, there's a litany to choose from. Whether it's the eternally sensual feel of silk or the slightly tougher wear of leather, finding one that suits your skin isn't difficult. Ideally, you should begin with softer materials to see how the skin in your chosen restraint area responds. While the skin around your ankles is relatively thick, the areas surrounding your wrists are thin. As such, you'll increase your risk of chafing if you go for harder materials first.
Focus on how much movement you want
While some kits result in little movement, others will allow you to wiggle around relatively freely while still enjoying the effects of bondage. Like materials, this depends on your personal preferences. Decide whether being fully restrained really appeals to you and if you're unsure aim for a looser set. If you start small, you can always work your way up to trickier items. Similarly, look at the dimensions of each kit and figure out whether they'll fit your bed.
Don't disregard starter packs
Although the idea of buying a bondage starter pack may make you feel like a complete novice, it's an excellent opportunity to explore what you do and don't like. Many such kits include additional items, such as blindfolds and collars. With the right starter kit, you can delve further into the world of bondage and decide how you'd like to expand your adventure.
Ultimately, buying your first bondage restraints is a case of trial and error. However, if you put a little thought into the process, you're more likely to get it right the first time around.